Change Clothes Challenge Days 10-13

The challenge continues. Friday, Day 10, I stayed in workout clothes most of the day so no pic. Here are the pics from Sat-today (Days 11-13). 

 Tribal Print pants with simple black tee.

White knit v-neck sweater and jeans. I had to take my own pic because I waited too late and Jimmy was in bed.

Brought back in some color with a red sweater and dark gray leggings.

Change Clothes Challenge: Days 7-9

I'm only posting what I wore today (Day 9) because on Days 7 and 8 I spent most of the day in the bed sick with a cold. Today it reached negative temperatures and still getting over a cold, I opted for some warm weather gear. In keeping with my "color" theme I decided on a pair of coral cords and a cream turtleneck sweater.

Savannah decided to get in the pic with me to show off her outfit too.

Going from 1 to 2 Kids: Not That Bad

Before having 2 children I would hear horror stories of how challenging it was to go from having 1 child to having 2. Armed with this knowledge I prepared my mind for this hard transition before Savannah was born. Savannah was born in June which meant that Carter was out of school for the summer. I made sure he had planned activities and summer camps lined up so I could focus on all the nursing and diaper changing that would ensue. I put my mom on a tight schedule to fill in when I needed help and I put Jimmy on night duty so I could get a couple hours of uninterrupted sleep.

Initially, I didn't feel much of a change with 2 children. Jimmy and my mom provided a great support system and Carter was and is very loving towards Savannah. The hardest part was not adjusting to an additional child, it was recovering from another c-section. Even though I had a c-section with Carter, I intended on attempting a vaginal birth with Savannah (VBAC). With Carter, I attributed my c-section to poor medical care while I was in labor. (The anesthesiologist administered my epidural without hooking me up to fluids even though I had been vomiting for several hours during labor. This caused my blood pressure to crash and Carter's heart rate to become unstable. Cue…emergency c-section.) With Savannah, labor was moving along smoothly until little mama decided she wasn't ready to come out and wasn't descending. Eventually, the doctor decided a c-section was the safest route and I agreed. When the doctor pulled her out, the umbilical cord was wrapped around her neck 3 times, explaining why she did not descend on her own.

Recovering from a c-section the second time around was more difficult than the first. It felt a lot more painful and my incision became infected thereby increasing the pain. Nevertheless, I had resumed regular activities after 2 weeks. I even went to the Jay Z/Beyonce concert; although the dancing was probably not the best thing for my healing process. By the time Savannah was a month old I felt back to normal. It definitely helped that she is the ideal baby. She was sleeping through the night at a month old, she only cried when she needed something, she nursed well, and she loved to be hugged and cuddled. Meanwhile, we kept Carter busy in so many activities that he didn't have time to be concerned with the new little person in the house. Summer went by without a hitch but the true test would be when school started and how I would manage getting Carter ready, feeding Savannah, making breakfast and lunch, and getting us all in the car and to school on time.

This leads me to the first time I felt the added weight of having 2 kids. Getting 2 kids bathed, dressed, fed, and into the car can be a challenge. Oh wait…and I forgot to add doing all those things for myself as well. In the beginning I grossly underestimated the time it took to make this happen. I had developed a great system for Carter and I where I could lay out his clothes and he could get himself dressed. Then I would come in to brush his teeth, wash his face, brush his hair, etc. We could both be dressed and ready to go in an hour. But with Savannah, I also had to factor in feeding time, a diaper change, and nap time. These were things I hadn't had to think about for a while and it took a minute for me to adjust to my new reality. Thankfully, a friend gave me a book called "Moms On Call" by Laura Hunter and Jennifer Walker. This book has a lot of basic information for infants 0-6 months and the section most useful for me was putting your baby on a schedule. Typically, I don't love schedules and am more of a go with the flow kind of person. But with 2 babies, I recognized quickly that I would lose my sanity if I didn't have a schedule to rely upon. So I wrote up the schedule and posted it to the refrigerator door. It goes something like this:

6:15 am - Wake up, Get Dressed
6:30 am - Wake up Carter, Get Carter Dressed
6:45 am - Wake up, Change, and Feed Savannah
7:00 am - Make Breakfast and Lunch
7:30 am - Leave for School
8:30 am - Feed Savannah
9-10:30 am - Savannah's Naptime, Diaper Change
10:30 am - Diaper Change, Dress Savannah, Feed Savannah
11:00 am - Playtime with Savannah
12:30 pm - Diaper Change, Feed Savannah
1-2:30 pm - Savannah's Naptime
2:30 pm - Diaper Change, Feed Savannah
2:50 pm - Leave to Pick up Carter from School
3:45 pm - Return Home, Snack for Carter, Homework
4:00 pm - Cook Dinner
5-5:30 pm - Everyone Eats Dinner
5:30-6:30 pm - Playtime for Carter and Savannah
6:30 pm - Bath for Savannah, Shower for Carter
7:30 pm - Bedtime for Carter
7:45 pm - Feed Savannah, Check Diaper
8:00 pm - Bedtime for Savannah
11:00 pm - My Bedtime

And somewhere in there I get done the things I want to accomplish during the day (e.g. cleaning, emails, phone calls, exercise, grocery shopping, etc.). I also have my mom to take over with Savannah when I have appointments or when something requires my undivided attention. This schedule actually makes the day to day pretty easy. Now I'm not saying there aren't days when I'm exhausted but I think it would be even worse if I didn't keep as close to this schedule as possible.

So while going from 1 to 2 kids has definitely been a transition, it has not been as difficult as I thought it would be. And now that I have Carter and Savannah, I couldn't imagine life without either of them.

Change Clothes Challenge (Days 4-6)

I haven't had time to post pics but I have been sticking to my challenge. Day 4 was Valentine's Day and while we don't really celebrate the holiday we did go to a dinner party with a few friends. My mom and I prepared the food for the dinner party so I spent most of the day cooking. Before the cooking started I took Carter to swim lessons and here is the outfit I wore:

 

(Basic skinny jean with turtleneck sweater and simple grey coat. Perfect for the chilly weather.)

I changed clothes for the dinner party. I chose this coral cashmere dress because of it's vibrant color but also because it's comfortable and feels so soft to my skin. I threw on a black faux fur vest to add some contrast (and to camouflage my post baby bump). Please forgive this pic (I hate mirror selfies) but it was the end of the night and I was just trying to take the pic before falling asleep.

As a side note, here are some pics of the cake I made for the dinner party. I tried to recreate the cake we had at our wedding reception. It's was a Triple Berry Shortcake from Sweet Lady Jane Bakery in LA. I had to reference a few different recipes to pull it off. I think it turned out pretty well and everyone said it was good.

 


Day 5 was Sunday, and Carter will tell you, "Mommy doesn't like to leave the house on Sunday." This is true. Sunday is my laundry day and also my time to veg out. Keeping this in mind, I am not posting a pic for this day because I don't think you really want to see me in my bathrobe or pajamas. I didn't repeat an outfit though.

Today I worked out this morning and stayed in my work out clothes for most of the day while I ran errands (which is exactly what I'm trying to avoid by doing this challenge). I did eventually find my way to the shower (which Jimmy appreciated), and chose a comfortable pair of black leggings and a multicolor top. I've been trying to wear more color. I think it helps lift of my spirits during these cold winter days.

It's All A Matter of Perspective

Jimmy and I saw "American Sniper" tonight which is based on the life story of Chris Kyle who is known as the deadliest sniper in U.S. military history. There's a scene in the movie where Kyle, who had just completed his 4th and final tour of duty, is on the phone with his wife. He has recently returned to the States from oversees but instead of rushing home to see his family he is sitting in a bar alone. His wife reminds him that the kids haven't seen him for 9 months and questions why he hasn't come home yet. His response is a very sobering "I guess I just needed a minute." This exchange got me thinking about perspective and how it shapes everything we do. In this instance, I felt both Kyle and his wife's perspectives were valid despite the fact that they were miles apart. Perspective by nature is very selfish. We see things through our own eyes, which have been colored by our collective life experiences, opinions, values, and morals. But it is only when we can step outside of our own box that we truly learn and grow, and build a connection with another person.

This film also served as a reminder to me of how truly blessed I am to have an intact family structure. Even though Jimmy travels often for work, a week doesn't go by when we don't see him. Kyle had been away from his family for 9 months while alive and now he is physically gone from them forever. I couldn't imagine life without Jimmy and am grateful for the time we do spend together. What we go through week to week is nothing compared to what other families endure when loved ones are away for months or years. Such distance can destroy the family structure even when good intentions are involved. It's all a matter of perspective.

Clothes Challenge Day 3

We'll call my look athletic today. I didn't intend to keep this on all day but it just worked out that way. I sure was comfortable though and dressed appropriately for running to the car to get out of the 20 degree weather we had today. Jimmy told me my outfit was not smile worthy; hence my attempt at a more serious pose.

30 Day Change Clothes Challenge-Day 2

The randomness continues. Here's my outfit for Day 2 of my 30 Day Clothing Challenge. I decided to add a pop of color to help brighten up the cold Winter day.

Randomness: 30 Day Clothing Challenge

I've decided to challenge myself to a 30 day clothing challenge. (Apparently, I have way too much time on my hands.) I'm tired of wearing the same three outfits every week and using the excuse that since I'm not going anywhere but to the grocery store or to Carter's school it's ok to stay in workout clothes all day or throw on whichever pair of jeans devoid of Savannah's spit up.

Darn it! I'm turning over a new leaf. For the next 30 days I vow not to repeat a single item of clothing (undergarments and workout clothes not included). I have so many clothes in my closet literally collecting dust and it's time to brush the shoulders off and share them with the world.

Disclaimer: I do not purport to have an amazing sense of style so even though I will be wearing different clothing it may not necessarily be stylish clothing. After all, there's probably a reason I haven't worn certain things for years.

I am going to post my outfits each day; mostly to hold myself accountable.

Here goes my outfit for Day 1:

Not Just Your Average Chicken & Potatoes Dinner

I'm not a big eater of beef or pork (bacon excluded) so we eat a lot of chicken in our house. Eating chicken several times a week can get BORING so I try to mix up the preparation and the types of chicken pieces I use. Most of the time I don't decide on what I'm cooking for dinner until the day of so the preparation depends heavily on what I have in the fridge and pantry. This week I happened to buy a lot of fresh herbs: parsley, cilantro, sage, rosemary, and thyme; so tonight's dinner was inspired by these. The end result was Baked Chicken Breast with Fresh Herb Pesto, Roasted Lemon Parsley Potatoes, and Whole Roasted Brussel Sprouts. It sounds simple but believe me, everything was packed with flavor. More importantly, it only takes about 1.5 hours to prep and cook everything and clean up is minimal because everything is cooked in the oven. The recipes are below.

Baked Chicken Breast with Fresh Herb Pesto

Ingredients:

Handful of fresh parsley
Handful of fresh cilantro
1 sprig fresh sage
1 sprig fresh thyme
1 sprig fresh rosemary
1 clove of garlic or 1/2 tablespoon crushed garlic
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil, plus 2 tablespoons
2 skin-on, bone-in, split chicken breasts
1 teaspoon of sea salt
1/2 cup low sodium chicken broth

Instructions: Preheat oven to 425 degrees. Place all ingredients except chicken and salt in a small food processor and blend until a paste is created. Rinse and pat dry chicken with paper towel. Place chicken in glass baking dish and rub about 1 tablespoon of olive oil on each breast. Then sprinkle each breast with salt. Using your hands, gently spread the pesto paste underneath the skin of the chicken breasts. Spread the remaining paste all over the chicken. Finally, pour the chicken broth in the bottom of the glass dish. Bake for 50-55 minutes or until meat thermometer reads 165 degrees. Let the chicken rest at least 10 minutes before slicing to allow the juices to redistribute.

Roasted Lemon Parsley Potatoes

 

When I tell you I couldn't stop eating these potatoes I'm not lying. They are utterly delicious, especially with the hint of lemon and slightly charred parsley.

Ingredients:

About 2 pounds small red and white potatoes

About 2 tablespoons of extra virgin olive oil

Handful of parsley

Juice from 1/2 lemon

1 teaspoon sea salt

1 teaspoon black pepper

1 teaspoon dried thyme

                                                       1/2 teaspoon garlic powder

Instructions: Preheat oven to Convection 375 degrees (or 400 if you don't have Convection). Wash and pat dry potatoes. Cut potatoes into equally-sized quarters and place in glass dish that has been sprayed with cooking spray. Pour olive oil over potatoes and sprinkle with all other ingredients. Stir using your hands to make sure potatoes are coated with all ingredients. Bake for 30-35 minutes stirring half way through cooking to make sure no potatoes stick to the glass dish.

Whole Roasted Brussel Sprouts

These brussel sprouts are super easy to make and tasty to eat with just about anything.

Ingredients:

About a pound of fresh brussel sprouts

1 teaspoon sea salt

1 teaspoon black pepper

1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil

Instructions: Preheat oven to Convection 375 (or 400 if you don't have Convection). Spread olive oil and spices generously on sprouts. Pour sprouts into glass baking dish and bake for 35-40 minutes or until tender.

Enjoy!